Long before I wrote a book titled Shoes Full of Sand, I wrote a song by that name. It was inspired by my then-new love for Fred Lick. Our first date took place just before Christmas. Dinner and a movie. Then Fred went to Southern California for two weeks to spend the holidays with his family. After only one date, we were already in love. We agreed to meet in Monterey.
I arrived first. I remember looking for him by the carousel, walking down the steps and seeing him coming toward me. Just like in the movies, we flew into other’s arms. We spent a magical weekend at the beach, where every moment confirmed that we were meant to be together. That was 1984. We were married in May 1985 and lived in San Jose, where Fred finished out his career with the City of San Jose’s recreation department and I worked for several newspapers, ending up as editor of the Saratoga News.
In 1996, we moved to Oregon. We both wanted to live by the beach, and here we could actually afford it. We longed for those shoes full of sand.
Tomorrow is the third anniversary of Fred’s death of complications from Alzheimer’s Disease. We never suspected back in 1984 that our lives would take such a turn. As I dig my feet into Oregon’s cool gray sand, I hear “Shoes Full of Sand” playing in my head again. I recorded it for you the other day. Dressed up, arranged the perfect background, repeated it till it was perfect. Unfortunately, that computer is in the shop today with a virus, so I tried it a capella on my phone. Note the dog helping in the lower right.
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B Childless by Marriage–B is for Baby
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F Unleashed in Oregon–F is for Fur
G Unleashed in Oregon–G is for Gunk
H Childless by Marriage–H is for Harley
I Unleashed in Oregon–I is for I-5
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K Unleashed in Oregon–Key is for Keys
L Unleashed in Oregon–L is for Lick
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Q Unleashed in Oregon–Q is for Question
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S Unleashed in Oregon
T Childless by Marriage
U Unleashed in Oregon
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W Unleashed in Oregon
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Z Childless by Marriage
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4 thoughts on “S is for . . . Shoes Full of Sand”
What a lovely story. But so sad. I'm sorry you lost your husband.
Thanks, Kate. I wish he was still here.
Turns out you are one brave lady making sense of the losses and changes in your life. It is something as an author I write about. Unleashed in Oregon is a great place to build your new world. Thanks for sharing the journey.
Thank you so much, Stepheny. I look forward to reading what you have written about this.